HAPPY FRIDAY AFTERNOON

Here’s to sending off a 41-page writing project…and hearing the word “beautiful” in return.

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Here’s to pulling off two impossible deadlines…two hours ahead of schedule.

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Here’s to seeing the inside of my shower curtain for the first time in…way too many days (thanks to those two impossible deadlines). Also here’s to ignoring the mildewishness.

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Here’s to wet hair…hanging down my back.

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Here’s to pulling on the first tank top…of hopefully many more this season.

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Here’s to appreciating my sunny bathroom…a little more than usual this afternoon.

Happy Friday, friends. We made it!

xo

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WHEN POSSIBLE

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I know this quote might make me sound like an old lady, but ever since I came across it, I’ve been loving it more and more.

A few times this past week some crabby old voices were screaming in my ear, “You should this…you should that…you should now!” while my own body clearly was saying, “No.”

“Just, no.”

And although I don’t always listen to my body, this time I did.

And it was good.

Here’s to slowing down when you can.

And, when you can’t (I can’t this week!), here’s to leaving dirty dishes in the sink, because rest matters more.

xo

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HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY

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Because it’s the
nuttiest
hardest
sweetest
happiest
most amazing
most challenging
most heart-stretching
most crazy-making
most sacred
most silly
most humbling
most messy
most important
job I have ever done
and ever will do,

I greet this day with a certain sense of pride
and disbelief
and gratefulness
and awe.

R-kids, you are the reason for my smile
and for so many other things I do.

I love you more than you could
ever,
ever,
ever,
seriously,
ever
know.

Happy mother’s day,
to all of you amazing women out there
who are pouring your love
and your life
into someone else’s.

And thank you again
to the mother who
poured hers
into me.

xo

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GOODBYE CHI-TOWN

Marilyn and I both left Chicago behind this week.

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It was a good run while it lasted.

Or should I say walk? Since I must have walked about 20 miles in the four days I was there – from my friend’s townhouse to the Metra to the “L” to meeting to meeting to taxi (because I’m doing all this walking in work shoes and now my feet are killing me and it’s worth the four bucks to not have to walk another mile) to one end of the convention center to the other end again to trolley to party to movie to bar to party again.

Tired as I was, though, the walking is one thing I love so much about Chicago. It’s one of those places where, if you live like a local and embrace public transportation, you can see so much more than tail lights on the journey from here to there.

Plus you can arrive home at the exact same moment as a whole mob of people who are all getting off the commuter train at the same time as you. Watching a wave of workers spread out into the neighborhood after a long day’s work – and being part of it – reminded me of living in Washington, D.C., and it made me smile.

In between the moments I spent walking and meeting (and trying to keep myself fed and hydrated and warm enough for the weather of the moment, which, if you know me, is a full-time job), I did a little wandering with no plans and no expectations. I had to fight the voices in my head that were yelling, “You have three free hours in Chicago! Museum! Tour bus! Miracle Mile! Do not waste a minute!”

But I happen to know that my favorite part of any trip – or really, life – is all the unexpected stuff you happen upon along the way. The little moments that make your experience in a place a little different from everyone else’s.

Like the hour spent soaking in the hot sun in the middle of a city garden with a fresh magazine.

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Like staring at a sea of brilliant blossoms, the first you’ve seen this season.

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Like buying nerd glasses from a sunglasses vendor and wearing them around as if you actually need them.

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And like enjoying a burger and a beer with a college friend who is as comfortable and loved as a favorite sweater.

Thanks for having me, Chicago. I’ll be back soon!

xo

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WINDY

Wow it’s been a whirlwind lately. In every which way.

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I’ve been out of my element the past few days, meeting with clients, laughing with friends, catching up with cousins, seeing some sights, having some adventures. I’ll be back soon…

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xo

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EXTRA INNINGS

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At some point in my life, I might have said something about a certain snowy, tinsely, merry month being the busiest time of the year.

I was wrong.

Or I just plain forgot.

Little League Practices
Fast-Pitch JV Softball Practices
Fast-Pitch JV Softball Games
Slow-Pitch Summer Softball Practices
Honor Society Nights
School Project Nights
Academic Award Nights
Choir Concerts
Band Concerts
School Outings
And lots and lots of extra innings

I’m still here! Sometimes!

xo

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THE LIVING ROOM LATEST

Because sometimes a picture

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really is worth

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a thousand

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Or keystrokes.

And because why not combine two of my faves: vintage typewriters and vintage needlework.

And because the typewriter was only $3.75 and the needlework has been floating around R-house looking for a place to land.

I say yes.

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I hope your week has been going well, friends. Mine has been exhausting and the rhino has been heavy. And, for reasons that I think are pretty valid but that still feel like excuses (i.e. never being home because I’m running children from one end of the earth to the other every night), I made it 11 days in my personal challenge instead of 14.

But I’m being nice to myself about it because I think that’s what myself needs. And I’m going to do some more moving tonight, right now, before I fall into bed. Because not finishing strong doesn’t mean quitting forever.

Here’s to grace! Here’s to sleep!

xo

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GET THIS ON RECORD

OK so tomorrow is Record Store Day.

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For the album covers!

I’ve got some new ideas brewing for my living room – I think I’m ready for some changes! – and I’ve done a couple runs through my favorite thrift stores to see if I can find the album that might scratch my itch. Along the way I ran across the first record I ever bought (which I GUARANTEE was not the same record that most of you bought). Wow.

Anyway, here’s a peek at a few goodies I’ve been collecting this week…

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The colors are killing me. The fabrics! The possibilities…! Screen porch? Living room?? Hmmmm.

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And here’s a few more of the 50-cent albums I grabbed. I’m loving the happy colors, fonts, and illustrations.

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Story to be continued…

Speaking of continued stories, it’s Day Nine and I better get off this computer and go get my heart pumping. Happy Friday, friends!

xo

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I GOT THE WATER

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Because, really.

It’s Day Six. Still feeling that 10-ton rhino. Still moving my body. Hope things are good on your end, friends.

xo

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DANCING SHOES

tennis shoes wood floor | shorts and longs | julie rybarczykI’m mixing things up here in my rhino-removal quest – a little outdoor fast-walking here, a little bike riding there, a little indoor workout here. Today, since we had snowflakes in the air (after 70ish yesterday?!), I wasn’t up for dragging my rhino outside, so I stayed in instead.

Anyway, for today—day five—my 20 minutes consisted of Dr. Brad’s 10-minute workout (see below) and three songs on the Just Dance Wii game with R-girl, including I’m So Excited by The Pointer Sisters.

Have I ever mentioned that when they were passing out the dancing genes – or, more specifically, the rhythm genes – I did not receive any? ZERO. So this little spectacle would have been quite entertaining for any potential onlookers, of which there were none, thankfully.

It might not have been pretty.

But it was fun.

And laughing adds a little extra O2 to the mix, right?

xo

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Dr. Brad’s 10-Minute Full-Body Workout

I learned this workout from my beloved Dr. Brad. He gave it to me a while back as part of his effort to urge me to please, Julie, at least move your body for 10 minutes a day. I have found it comes in handy when I’ve been a little motivated to move, but not very motivated. Heck, 10 minutes is 1/3 of a Modern Family episode…

Do everything quickly to a count of 10. You should be out of breath by the end. (I am out of breath after number one.) Enjoy.

1. Full Squats
2. 90-degree Wall Sit
3. Step Ups (onto a step or platform, 10 each leg)
4. Lunges (10 each leg)
5. Chair Dips (for triceps)
6. Push-ups
7. Plank Position (hold for count of 10)
8. Belly Swim (I do 20)
9. Superman Position (hold for count of 10)
10.  Feet to Ceiling (ummm, sorry, I can’t remember what this one is…)
11.  Scissor Legs
12. Leg Raises
13. Opposite Elbows to Knees
14. Abdominal Crunches

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